My War Against the Actual Real Transgender Man

A statue with really jacked back muscles. If I knew what they were called, I wouldn’t be this insecure.
He looks like this, but without the goofy hair. Photo by Simone Pellegrini on Unsplash

Every day of my life, I feel his presence: The Actual Real Transgender Man. This man does not exist (although he does, in the form of all trans men who have their shit more together than I do) and…

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Author of “Trainwreck” (Melville House, ‘16) and “Dead Blondes and Bad Mothers” (Melville House, ‘19). Columns published far and wide across the Internet.

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Jude Ellison S. Doyle

Jude Ellison S. Doyle

Author of “Trainwreck” (Melville House, ‘16) and “Dead Blondes and Bad Mothers” (Melville House, ‘19). Columns published far and wide across the Internet.

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