Someone Is Always “Saying Gay”
Forbidding schools to teach LGBTQ+ identities doesn’t keep kids ignorant — it makes sure the most hateful voices define the conversation.
My primary identity is “parent.” I’ve changed jobs since I had my daughter; I’ve moved; I’ve come out; I’ve transitioned. Nearly every other part of my identity has changed, but the one role that remains constant, the one thing I never actually stop being, is the person whose job it is to nurture and care for this particular child.
It has been very, very hard to be a parent in these past few weeks. The anti-LGBTQ+ agenda in the United States is concentrated on children. In Texas, parents who allow their children to transition are being investigated for “child abuse” and potentially having their children taken away by the state. In Florida, the Parental Rights in Education bill forbids teachers to “encourage classroom discussion about sexual orientation or gender identity in primary grade levels;” Gov. Ron DeSantis’ press secretary, Christina Whishaw, refers to it as an “Anti-Grooming Bill,” insisting that talking about gender identity or gay people with children is a form of sexual abuse.
