Someone Is Always “Saying Gay”

A young girl looks with evident dismay at what I’m assuming is her teacher.
Sorry, Olivia, you were born in Florida. Photo by Les Anderson on Unsplash

My primary identity is “parent.” I’ve changed jobs since I had my daughter; I’ve moved; I’ve come out; I’ve transitioned. Nearly every other part of my identity has changed, but the…

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Author of “Trainwreck” (Melville House, ‘16) and “Dead Blondes and Bad Mothers” (Melville House, ‘19). Columns published far and wide across the Internet.

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Jude Ellison S. Doyle

Jude Ellison S. Doyle

Author of “Trainwreck” (Melville House, ‘16) and “Dead Blondes and Bad Mothers” (Melville House, ‘19). Columns published far and wide across the Internet.

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