Why Was This the First Thing I Saw on Trans Day of Visibility?

An ominous-looking water bottle, which you will never touch at Jesse Singal’s house.
One of the many things not touched by Jesse Singal’s dates. Photo by Steve Johnson on Unsplash

I woke up this morning with a stress headache. It was terrible — one side of my head a rictus of pain, like an ice-cream brain freeze stretched out for eternity. Light and noise were…

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Author of “Trainwreck” (Melville House, ‘16) and “Dead Blondes and Bad Mothers” (Melville House, ‘19). Columns published far and wide across the Internet.

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Jude Ellison S. Doyle

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Author of “Trainwreck” (Melville House, ‘16) and “Dead Blondes and Bad Mothers” (Melville House, ‘19). Columns published far and wide across the Internet.

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