Why Was This the First Thing I Saw on Trans Day of Visibility?

I could have gone all day without thinking about Jesse Singal exploring someone’s body, but here we are.

One of the many things not touched by Jesse Singal’s dates. Photo by Steve Johnson on Unsplash

I woke up this morning with a stress headache. It was terrible — one side of my head a rictus of pain, like an ice-cream brain freeze stretched out for eternity. Light and noise were…